Life's journey continues

The journey that is called life can be a tricky one. I would know. It has always been that way for me. I am, however, a much stronger person than I used to be having taken full control of my life.

It has been tough but when I am in control and I know what is gong on and how I do things, then it is a much smoother ride than when somebody else is trying to tell me what to do. If there is one thing that I always want respected, it is that, let me do things my way and let me take control of the situation, regardless of how long it takes. I have had to face many battles in my life and as time has gone by it has gotten alot easier and I am a much better person for it.

People need to understand and one person that does understand this, is my mother, she knows that when I set my mind to doing something in a particular way, then that is how I am going to do it. That is the final straw on the matter.

I have always made my own decisions and some I have kept to myself at a particular time because I have had to or I was unsure of how they would respond to it. Every decision I make is very carefully thought through and when I undertake that decision I know that it is the right thing to do. I don't just do things willy-nilly. It is not on impulse. I do things that way because I have to most of the time.

It is not easy for me to listen to other people tell me what to do because most of the time, I'm not comfortable with it, the only time I want to hear someone telling me what to do is if I ask you for your input on something before I make the final call on the matter. Otherwise, do not tell me what to do or how to live my life.

I have my reasons for doing things the way that I do and I will do them when I am comfortable. I'm a late bloomer, I know that. I hate being bossed around. It really grates me. I have had many battles to face on a daily basis. It has taken me ten years to get to this point and I know that I still have a long way to go before things get to where I want them to be. I just thank my lucky starts that I never gave up on myself or what I wanted because I know that when the time is right, they will happen. I have come a really long way and I am much stronger for it.

The person that people knew me to be in high school and university is long gone. That person doesn't exist anymore. I have to admit that doing certain things over especially the last month or so have really helped to get things going in a positive direction. I am glad that I took that step and I have every intention of keeping it up because it is working like a charm.

Those of you that are familiar with it will know what I am talking about and for now, it is my little secret but it is a very effective little tool. Thanks to this, my journey took a very fast track upward and the momentum continues every single day. I actually have to admit that I wish that when I had stumbled upon it, I had used it then. It was recently, like later in the past year. It would have been a blessing especially then but now that I am using it, I'm glad about it.

To those of you travelling back home from your holidays this weekend, please drive safe and take regular breaks and don't rush to get home. That way you are fresh for work on Monday morning. Otherwise enjoy your weekend, whatever you are doing.

See you all tomorrow.

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