Having a life of our own

We all dream of what we call the perfect life. A life where everything is just the way we picture it in our minds. A life where everything just goes according to plan and we have no worries and nothing could ever go wrong. In reality, the idea of a perfect life is no way to live because at the end of the day you are not going to get what you want the way you want it. It is a lesson I have been learning the hard way so as a result I am just taking it in my stride and leaving everything else in the hands of a higher power to make it all happen. life is all in our minds. I can understand the ideal life where we have what we want and things work out well and we are living comfortably but a perfect life is an illusion which can only live in our imaginations.

Each and every one of us wants things to go the way we picture it but what we really should be doing is just taking things as they come. We all need to understand that life will always have its ups and downs and for some of us, it will happen at a later stage than others. I am one of those people that also wants to have the house of my dreams and build a life with my one true love and we are raising a beautiful family together and at some point it will happen for me. For many years, I have worked really hard to gain that and at this point, I think it is almost there with a few things still slightly out of place but I do know that in time, those pieces will fall into place and I will live the life I have always wanted to. I have always been somebody who knows what they want and how to get it, the time-frame has just been a little bit against me.

One thing we all need to remember is that chasing the perfect life is literally going to be just that unless you learn to take life as it comes your way and not rush everything to get it when you want it. Life in itself is a journey and we need to constantly be reminded of that.

I know that we live in a hectic time where we want everything now but life does not work that way. Even mother nature takes her time to make sure everything is beautiful as she intended it to be. Take everything that she shows us as a way to live our lives. Take your time and embrace the beauty around you. If you live your life this way then in time it will come to you with little to no effort.

There is an old saying, "life is a journey, enjoy the ride" and we need to enjoy this journey that is life and not take it so seriously because eventually when you come to the end of your life, you will be filled with regret that you didn't enjoy what you had already been blessed with in your life.

The last thing anybody wants is to find themselves in this position. Nobody wants to be filled with regret that they took life for granted at the end of their lives. That regret is just not worth it. As we take our time in our lives, things are so much more stable and we can live the life that we want and we can say that it is the life that we want and that this life is our own.

Time will teach us that we will get what we want when the time is right and that it cannot be rushed, simple as that. Live your life well and it will all come to you

At the end of the day, you will have the life that you want and it will be a life that you can be proud of. Never ever rush things in this world, slow down and take it in and enjoy and relish every moment to build a life of your own. When the work is done, then you can say that it was a life worth living.

My life is slowly coming together and it is a life of my own and as time goes by, things do get better and better and it has all been worth it for me.

Enjoy your life. I have so many more things to tell you but I will continue the story of my journey in life tomorrow. See you all then.

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