Dealing with narcissists
- Helen
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4 min read
My least favourite type of people. So full of themselves and only focused on how they see things and life. Every damn thing is about them and how they benefit from a situation. What really bugs me is that they think they are better than everyone else around them. They are very bossy too. Irritates the hell out of me.
They always tell you how you must live your life and what you must do and not question anything they say. They also treat everyone around them as though you cannot think for yourself.
I always had people ask me when I am growing breasts and when I am going to get married and have children. Listen here people, it will happen for me when it happens. Life happens at its own pace as I keep saying but that is because it is true.
My body has developed very slowly over the years but I have had a very fast metabolism my whole life so having things look an ideal way has been difficult my whole life, can people please get that into their heads about me. Yes, I am genetically underweight, always have been. I look the way I do these days because through trial and error I have found the right way. It has not been easy at all.
Narcissists are a real pain. I absolutely hate them with a passion. I really and truly do. I have found that in the work sector the only thing that really works for me is to work for myself and it hasn't happened overnight, nothing in life ever does. Get that into your heads people and drop the damn issue.
It has taken as long as it has because other things, psychological to be specific, keep getting in the damn way and I have to get through that first and have the right mindset for it to work out the way I envision things. It is not because I am incapable. I am more than capable, I know that. I always have.
These fools that are so full of themselves have never and will never understand that. I know I'm ranting and raving but I am so damn sick of everybody telling me what they think is best for me. Really I am.
Take a walk in my shoes for 5 minutes and you will see how hard things have been for me. You will crap yourselves over what I have had to deal with. Get in my head and then say the things you have said to me in the past. You will never ever say those things ever again.
\
Yes, it is a weakness but it is one that I am fully aware of and am dealing with on a daily basis. Just take a chill pill and worry about your own damn crap. I have had top deal with this on a daily basis my whole life, more so since I was a teenager. This cycle in my life is nothing new.
I have never been unattractive or stupid. Far from it. I write these posts so people can understand that I am not a robot. I cannot just be given commands and made to just do your bidding. Humans do not function that way.
I have had my heart broken via SMS (text message) and felt like my whole world ripped out from under me. Had my name dragged through the mud for no reason without being asked for my side of the story. All by these very types of people. This has all happened to me hundreds of times in my 33 years on this earth.
Get to know a person and see why things re the way they are for them. The last thing that you will ever do is assume things about someone or think that you are better than them. No two people are the same in this world. We all have to function somehow and people like these are the last thing that you want to have to deal with.
I do my damndest to stay far away from them. They have bullied me many times, not just to my face but behind my back too. irritates me to no end. Narcissism is such a toxic concept and those people really need a very large dose of their own medicine.
Yes, it is true that I only finished high school and got kicked out of university because I failed too many courses. Not because I was stupid. I had to deal with things in life and they took their toll. My whole family had to deal with this.
Another thing that grates me about narcissists is that they see things that they want to see and then tell you how to fix them without even trying to find out how things got that way in the first place because they are experts at life and only they know best.
Newsflash to all of you, you think that you are immune to the real world, no you're not. You are actually your own worst enemy. You are not untouchable as you might convince yourself to be.
I have dealt with narcissistic managers and people my whole life. You are the biggest pains in the behind ever. One of these people was the real reason I left my job at Cape Union Mart. Yes, you asshole, it was your fault. I had to walk away from all my friends that I made in two and a bit years because of you and all the crap you gave me. Were you seriously that intimidated by me.
I actually just told another narcissist that I was not going to be able to help him with things in his business anymore, everything that I knew would go wrong, did and it is his own fault that he never listened to me. Karma is going to bite him so damn hard and there will be absolutely nothing he can do to fix things and make them right.
I do not have time for people like this. I really and truly do not. They are the bane of irritation in this world. How in the world are any of you still breathing?
How many of these types of people have you had to deal with in your life?
Comment below and let me know. I will carry on telling more stories tomorrow.
Comentários